Comments on: Happy Birthday Fannie Biderman!

By: mom

mom — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 19:12:18 +0000

you are the best you really are such a compassionate person.. I am glad you are my son love you

By: Noel Snow

Noel Snow — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 08:53:18 +0000

No one in the Biderman brood need ever feel bad about being the last one to reply or to show up at the party as long as I’m around. I’ll be late to my own funeral (no, really). I missed out on hearing about this beautiful and fitting tribute until just a few weeks ago.

Ah Fanny. I’m the one with the ammo in the photo above, “Rebirth”. Since Anja was born, the hours, days and months fly by. Fannie and I hardly ever see one another and I miss her terribly… She gifted one of her paintings to me a few years ago. I cried. I feel so humbled by having (Fannie’s) great art in my home. I will take a photo and make sure that Bob gets a copy.

75. Being able to ring Fannie up for boy advice. She was the only one I’d trust to call about these things…
76. The first time we went to MoMA together (2001); a monumental trip to see art for me. She dusted me, racing almost a floor ahead of me. And insisted on taking Muni home at dusk.
77. The view from Fannie’s Park Merced apartment at night, with the soft lights of the city coming thru the fog. All was so quiet, except for Fannie’s subdued snores, and it was a peaceful place for contemplation.
78. “Spending the night at Fannie’s in a single bed. Real fun with a significant other!” – YEP!!
79. The way she can tear up a plate full of Chinese food.
80. Listening to “Ohhhhhhhhhhh, you’ll find your way…” and, “You’re going to be late to work! (even on Saturday)”
81. Marching in Protest and attending the Folsom Street Fair with me in 2004.
82. Her 5:30am exercises: “Sit and Get Fit”.
83. Fannie never remembering Rick’s name. He loves that about her.
84. Always welcoming me to SF, and making it possible for me to root myself here.
85. Having your ear pulled down to her lips, and the tickle of her words
86. Letting me be her roommate when I was 35! Good times. She liked the sake I’d bring home.
87. Remembering how she’d deal with the campaign callers. Something like, “I can’t hear a word you’re saying. Good luck!! I know you’ll vote for the right person…”
88. A true, blue friend. A spirited and girlish dancer. Keeps rolling along with things. Tells it like it is!

We love you Fannie. Thanks to you, many of us were able to collect ourselves emotionally & spiritually at your place, in your colorful character, and then come into our own. XO

By: Paul Biderman

Paul Biderman — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 21:04:36 +0000

It’s taken me so long to reply that I’m not sure anyone will see this, but I have to leave a note just in case. I wasn’t savvy enough to realize just what this website was for until I checked today.

For about five years Fanny has been the only remaining family member of the generation that preceded me and my wife, Ellen. That means that her continued vitality prevents our becoming the older generation, which was one reason we flew out from Santa Fe for her 95th birthday. She was one of three of my aunts who had become Bidermans by marrying my father’s brothers, but she took a very different course than the rest. She shared Ed’s passion for social justice, produced fascinating and beautiful paintings, lived somewhere out west in a place called Cincinatti (well, to a New York kid anything past New Jersey was west), and moved around. She is also the only member of that generation (at least on my side) who lived long enough to see her great grandchildren. I remember fondly the summers I spent as a teenager in Daly City visiting, and enjoyed the contrasting lifestyle and warmth of Fanny and Ed’s household amid the misty coolness of the Bay Area, such a contrast to the sizzling New York streets. Fanny has made a big impact on who I have become, and I wish her many more good years. Paul Biderman, Santa Fe NM

By: gabe

gabe — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 14:11:02 +0000

Thanks so much everyone! My dad was just about to print this out for Fannie to read last night and I’m sure that we have all made it the best 96th ever! My uncle, Bob Biderman, has compiled more of Fannie’s Paintings at this website:
http://www.germinalproductions.com/blackapollo/fkb.html
If you do have any of Fannie’s paintings it would be great to take some pictures and send them to Bob so that we can continue to grow the Fannie Biderman gallery!
Bob’s email is blackapollo@gmail.com

By: amy

amy — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 13:59:26 +0000

I have heard so much about you, Fannie, and have always hoped to meet you. You are so inspiring…just from these lists! And clearly, you are very, very beloved.

By: Phyllis

Phyllis — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 05:41:17 +0000

Happy Happy 96th birthday Fannie

You are my inspiration and my catalyst.
You embody the creative life . . . your gift to all the Binik girls.
You will always be a part of who we are and the way we see life.

65. I still have the bushel basket you painted to hold my toys–and then Justin and Aaron’s toys and next . . .we will see what develops.

I REMEMBER

66. your hand painted birthday cards and the hanukah cards

67. travelling with you on the BART to I don’t know where

68. exploring museums together

69. going to the Japanese tea garden

70. going to the sushi restaurant with the boats

71 walking along the beach

72. going to seal rock and finding the wonderful matchstick museum downstairs

73. the japanese dolls and silk kimonos you and your mother brought to us. This year the white and black one went to Ellie in Chicago.

74. The car that you and Ed had that talked to us “The door is ajar” and we would laugh and say we thought it was a door.

Most of all please remember how much we love you!

By: Barbara

Barbara — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 04:17:44 +0000

HAPPY 96TH BIRTHDAY FANNIE! I have so many great memories of you as I grew up and throughout my life. I don’t remember a time where you weren’t a part of my life and our “Binik/Kuhr(Kuller side) family.” I think about you so much…
54. getting the beautiful hand-made cards for birthdays and Hanukah, you created. They were works of art and I still have them!
55. you introducing me to sushi, before it was “fashionable.” I don’t remember the name of the place we went to when I visited you in SF. I do remember picking up each one as they floated by on a dish that represented the type of sushi it was (and the cost.)
56. how you advised my mom to give us pieces of blank newsprint to “draw/color on.” It would teach us creativity and that staying within the lines was not as much fun. (take that any way you want)
57. the times you came to Cincinnati and stayed at our house. As Rochelle mentioned – mom and dad always had a bottle of “Beefeater” ready for you. And you taught mom the art of creating your famous salad, with your special oil and vinegar dressing, in a special wooden bowl rubbed with garlic.
58. when you came to Chicago to visit me and Rochelle on your way to? from? NYC. (It wasn’t that long ago. I’ve been here 9 years.) You, like our mom, had more energy than Rochelle and I put together!
59. how much my mom enjoyed the conversations you had and the times you spent together – no matter where you were. You were like sisters.
60. when I called to talk with you one time, not THAT long ago. Ed answered the phone and told me you weren’t there. You were marching with the “Gray Panthers.” I remember thinking, with a big smile on my face, “That’s Fannie. She is always there for people.”
61. talking about my painting teacher, Robert Fabe, and how you went to school with him at the University of Cincinnati. And some other interesting stories…
62. how you are always open to new adventures and opportunities.
63. the great talks about almost everything.
64. you saying, “Honey, the key to living a long life is having young friends!”
You have always been young at heart and I know you continue to be that way. I wish you much happiness as you celebrate your birthday and the birth of a new chapter in America’s history! HERE’S TO YOU!

By: mickey

mickey — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 03:09:35 +0000

Happy birthday Fannie, You are beautiful…from a pinhole photographer

By: rochelle,hans, ellie and sidney

rochelle,hans, ellie and sidney — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 01:23:15 +0000

Our dear Fannie! Happy Birthday. We love you so much and wish we could bring Sidney and Ellie to meet you. They see all your paintings in our home, even though the one I love, you said it was not your favorite. Thanks so much for sharing our wedding, you are the closest to being my mom since my mom, Edith is gone. You have filled my life and now Hans with love, gin, laughing, gin, great food and more drinks. I remember the conga dance line at your 90th with party hats and all. I have shared many “art walks” in Chicago and SF with you and my sister and we loved every minute even thought you kicked our butts on energy.
When I was a young girl Fannie stayed with us in Cincinnati sometimes when Ed was “busy” and I remember her making a big salad also in a wooden bowl along with gin. My mom and dad always kept your favorite on hand. I could go on for a long time with all the great things we have shared. Hans and I are toasting you right now, all our love.

By: gabe

gabe — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 22:37:00 +0000

Fannie has always brought the Biderman and beyond family together more! Sharing Hans and Rochelle’s Wedding in Chicago was an amazing time. Fannie and her sister Helen were the toast of the town!